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So I had a very interesting interaction with a Free Runner in my local community. This poor guy was under the major disillusion that he was naturally the best. My first reaction was to find a few choice words and put this guy in his place. I mean seriously, who makes such a bold claim.
Even the guys that are considered the best by our global community don't walk around advertising it. But after much thought on the subject I decided to let this guy sink his own ship. He has already alienated himself from his friends, training partners, and anyone else that ever extended a hand of friendship to him. His arrogance has gotten him booted from so many gyms it is ridiculous. all so that he can live inside this fantasy that he is "Naturally the Best".
But that one statement by itself is pure ignorance. The concept of "the Best" should not even exist in what we do. Because of the ever growing knowledge base and varying styles that have begun to pop up world wide.......can there really be a Best?
Each person that enters into this discipline is charged with the same mission. That one little sentence that defines us as free runners, practitioners and tracuers. A statement that keeps us a discipline and not a sport. a saying so profound that it can completely change a persons life.
Find your own path.
maybe he has found his own path. maybe his is a path of inward and outward deceit. If that’s what he wants to believe, who are we to judge him. But I caution others from following such a path for it is truly a lonely path indeed. If you have been in this game for any amount of time you have no doubt realized that Parkour and Free running has a certain humbling effect on serious practitioners. It can really show you what you are and are not made of. It can give you a feeling of complete exhilaration, and one of utter aggravation. It can make you a star, and its little bitch, all in the same day. It is when we grow too confident that injury will remind us of how human we are.
When one refuses to accept the fact that there are others that have strengths in our weakest areas, that is when we reach the peak of our ability. This community is just that, a community. It takes an entire village to raise a child, and when it comes to movement, we are all just children. We must allow ourselves to be open to input from others. We need to listen to our elders, as well as, those that are newbees. You never know where the most enlightening statement will come from. But the illusion that no one knows more than you is the equivalent to putting your hands over your ears and screaming really loud.
Some of the greatest knowledge about movement I ever got came from an 83 year old trapeze artist. Had I have just blown him off as some senile old man….I would not be to the level I am today. Had I not listened to the insane questions my students asked, I would not have such a powerful understanding of the basics.
“If I never fell I wouldn’t know how a fall felt, wouldn’t know what it was like to need help. Most of think that we can help ourselves, but when we look into a mirror it’s too hard to tell.”
By being arrogant, you are broadcasting to the community that you see Parkour and Free Running as nothing more than a set of moves. The true nature of it will forever remain just beyond your reach.
Just something to think about.
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